wounded and wanting

i see so many people in some form of these two states - usually both .... this concerns me .... often there's not a lot i can do - which concerns me .... and then, what little i do see that i can do, i usually don't .............. this shames, embarrasses and concerns me ..........

and it's not like i don't know what it's like to be wounded or wanting - i am intimately acquainted with these states of being ... am often/usually in one or the other or both (which concerns me) .... but somehow it still doesn't 'drive' me to do more than acknowledge my need for disciplined actions to match, or even externally exhibit my concerns ..............

i get migraines .....

big surprise ....